Advice please ?
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Advice please ?
uuugh, kaaay, sorry but can someone please give me there advice ?
I'll say what's wrong when someone replies (:
Thanks.
I'll say what's wrong when someone replies (:
Thanks.
Baabydon'thurtme.- Posts : 3
Join date : 2009-10-05
Age : 29
Location : Canada
Re: Advice please ?
Shouldn't this be in The Chat Lounge...
justsayingg..
ANYWHOO.
What's up? :]
justsayingg..
ANYWHOO.
What's up? :]
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Re: Advice please ?
OOOH, sorry i'm not exactly sure how to use this thing. I've just joined.
Kaay, well,
I dated this guy for 2 months, then i broke up with him because he was controlling. After a while I gave him another chance. We've been dating for a while now, but we fight constantly, He's starting to be controlling. And he gets angry at me if i do certain things. If he gets sad/angry he takes it out on me which really hurts me because i don't do anything to him but i get balmed for it. I really like him, when he's not this way he's a nice boyfriend. And I'm the kind of person that doesn't want to hurt anyone even if that means hurting myself more.
Also, We were sexualy active once, and he was a virgin, which means I was his first. Now it seems like that's all he wants in this relationship.
I don't know what to do, I've talked to my friends about it but I want some more views on the situation in case i make the wrong decision. Help ?
Kaay, well,
I dated this guy for 2 months, then i broke up with him because he was controlling. After a while I gave him another chance. We've been dating for a while now, but we fight constantly, He's starting to be controlling. And he gets angry at me if i do certain things. If he gets sad/angry he takes it out on me which really hurts me because i don't do anything to him but i get balmed for it. I really like him, when he's not this way he's a nice boyfriend. And I'm the kind of person that doesn't want to hurt anyone even if that means hurting myself more.
Also, We were sexualy active once, and he was a virgin, which means I was his first. Now it seems like that's all he wants in this relationship.
I don't know what to do, I've talked to my friends about it but I want some more views on the situation in case i make the wrong decision. Help ?
Baabydon'thurtme.- Posts : 3
Join date : 2009-10-05
Age : 29
Location : Canada
Re: Advice please ?
Okay well, it seems like he's using you and has forgot about the real reason he was with you in the first place. Sometimes asking him why he loves you or asking him if he feels lucky to be with you can help tough situations as well as show him that your important to him.
But that's just my opinion, haha.
But that's just my opinion, haha.
Re: Advice please ?
Baabydon'thurtme. wrote:OOOH, sorry i'm not exactly sure how to use this thing. I've just joined.
Kaay, well,
I dated this guy for 2 months, then i broke up with him because he was controlling. After a while I gave him another chance. We've been dating for a while now, but we fight constantly, He's starting to be controlling. And he gets angry at me if i do certain things. If he gets sad/angry he takes it out on me which really hurts me because i don't do anything to him but i get balmed for it. I really like him, when he's not this way he's a nice boyfriend. And I'm the kind of person that doesn't want to hurt anyone even if that means hurting myself more.
Also, We were sexualy active once, and he was a virgin, which means I was his first. Now it seems like that's all he wants in this relationship.
I don't know what to do, I've talked to my friends about it but I want some more views on the situation in case i make the wrong decision. Help ?
ok with what you have said above, I hate to say it but you need to end it. These types of relationships only degrade with time. Im not saying it will but how he takes it out on you may become more than just words if you know what I mean. It will hurt but you need to do for both him and yourself.
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